Mumbai music composer Ismail Darbar recently addressed public criticism regarding his second wife Ayesha's conversion to Islam after their marriage. Darbar emphasized that his wife made the decision to convert voluntarily. He also highlighted that their son, who has both a Muslim and a Hindu name, actively participates in Hindu religious practices.[hindustantimes+2]
Darbar Clarifies Wife's Choice
Ismail Darbar, known for his work in films like "Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam," spoke out against those trolling him and his wife. He confirmed that Ayesha, previously named Preeti, converted from Hinduism to Islam after their wedding. Darbar firmly stated that he did not force her to change her religion.[hindustantimes+2]
"She converted because she wanted to. There was no pressure from my side," Darbar told an interviewer.He explained that their relationship developed over time. He proposed to Ayesha during a drive after an argument with his first wife, Farzana.[medium+5]
Son Embraces Dual Faith
Darbar offered specific details about his youngest son, Imaan, as a testament to his family's interfaith harmony. Imaan also carries the Hindu name Maan. Filmmaker Sanjay Leela Bhansali, a close family friend, gave him the name Imaan.[hindustantimes+2]
"When he goes to his maternal grandparents' home, he's called Maan there," Darbar explained.He added, "He also stands in the pooja, puts a tilak on his forehead."Darbar stressed that he has taught his son to respect his birth religion and all other faiths.[timesofindia+8]
Ayesha's Support and Sacrifice
The music composer praised Ayesha for her strength and sacrifices over their 20 years of marriage. He described this period as "very tough."Darbar credited Ayesha with standing by him through difficult times.[hindustantimes+4]
Sanjay Leela Bhansali reportedly told Darbar that his wife saved him. "I am saved just because of my wife, and if it was not for her, I would have been finished," Darbar recalled Bhansali saying.Ayesha also left her career in the entertainment industry to focus on their family.[hindustantimes+5]
Family Dynamics and Respect
Darbar has been open about his unique interfaith household in the past. He remains married to both Farzana and Ayesha. His sons from his first marriage, Awez and Zaid Darbar, maintain a respectful relationship with him and Ayesha.[timesofindia+2]
He stated that his older sons understood the situation surrounding his second marriage and never judged him.Darbar continually emphasizes the importance of respecting all religions within his family.This philosophy guides how he raises his children.[medium+7]
Addressing Past Allegations
Darbar also addressed past allegations of infidelity regarding his first marriage. He clarified that his marriage to Farzana was strained for a decade, and they were living separately before he married Ayesha.He stated there was no conflict, but a growing distance between them.[indianexpress+4]
He proposed to Ayesha when she was engaged to another man, developing feelings for her after heart-to-heart conversations.Darbar maintains that his children from his first marriage have always shown him respect.[thedailyjagran+4]
Ongoing Public Discourse
The composer's statements come amid ongoing public discussions about interfaith marriages and religious conversions in India. Darbar's candidness about his family life provides insight into how some public figures navigate these personal and societal issues. His emphasis on religious respect and individual choice continues to be a key part of his public narrative.
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